Reviews

I don't usually like to give bad reviews but of late I've decided to as to warn people so they don't go what I had to, I have a mental disorder that causes high amounts of anxiety... but I went to Pat with my sister who acts as a personal representative as I was going through a divorce -- and so we asked her if she could just help us write up a settlement for the divorce and offer to my husband as due to my mental issues and depression of the divorce we really wanted to avoid any battles of court hearings. My initial opinion was that Pat seems to be a beautiful caring person as she listened intently and then asked me how much I wanted, which was very important to me, I really wanted to work with someone I could trust. But a week or so later she asked for a meeting with my husband and his attorney and for an hour asked questions that could have been answered within moments on a questionnaire. I thought there must be a reason but after the meeting she told me she felt based on certain aspects I could get more than I wanted, which that was not at all what I wanted to do yet never would answer what she think I could get yet sent constant emails which most made no sense and clearly were only to create a bigger bill. I constantly asked her to include my sister but she never did and I finally became so tense I ended up creating the settlement myself and had to be the one to sit with my husband to negotiate which between him and I, I agreed to pay Pat's fees if they went over a certain amount as I figured she wouldn't be charging too much... Then in the end she planned on hiding her fees from me leaving them completely off the settlement I was to sign, the actual official settlement. But I pressed her and she finally told me which I was pretty upset. The only good thing she did was make it where I didn't have to be present for the court hearing but in retrospect she probably figured then I wouldn't see the fees at all till it was too late to react to them. When I last seen her to sign the paper work I watched her pale as I told her of my agreement with my husband and that I was the one who'd now have to pay her for most of that out of my pocket which after finding out what she was going to charge to her I would never hire again. So unfortunately that's my experience with Pat and for me it hurts as I really wanted to trust her but based on my experience with her I would never hire her for anything again. As for my husband's lawyer I'd hire her in a heart beat. She protected him as best she could and from what he told me didn't overcharge for her services at all.

Pat did an excellent job with my difficult and unique situation. She was able to get me through an extremely difficult time with ease. Additionally, she was able to calm me down by thoroughly explaining my options and not making me feel as though I should just 'give in'. I would recommend Pat to my friends and family, should the need arise and would retain her again, should I need to.

Pat has been my go-to attorney for years following my original divorce.( I wish she had represented me then too, and perhaps, I wouldn't have needed any further trips to court). I retained her originally based on a recommendation from someone else who'd used her. Boy, were they right! My experience has been that she is supportive and knowledgeable. She listens. She also allows you to vent, explain, cry, get angry, or whatever it is that you need, while providing the solid legal expertise that is necessary to 'win' your case( Family Law has no real winners- but she gets as close to a win as possible). Pat allowed me to make my own decisions about the case but also knew when I needed to be pulled back into reality. I would recommend her to anyone who has a family law situation. I am just saying, if my case didn't make her retire--- she is battle tested-- and can handle anything and anyone! She knows the law and the legal system so she will use it to her best ability to get the outcome that is right for you. One of the best there is...

I hired Pat 11 years ago for my divorce. Over the years my ex has found numerous reasons to take me to court. I have felt comfortable calling on Pat to help and she has always been a supportive, understanding advocate not only for me, but for my children. In this last go around (and I do hope it's the last), Pat aggressively pursued my side of the matter and the adverse motion brought by my ex was dismissed and I received legals fees awarded to me. I'm very happy with the results and would recommended Pat as someone that will have your back.

Next to the birth of our children, among the happiest moments in our life is when we fall in love and get married. If only we could stay married and live happily ever after. Unfortunately, life is not a fairy tale - Trust me, I know. If you find yourself at the crossroads in your relationship, and you know in your gut that you need to seek representation in a divorce, you better 'lawyer up' with the best, because it's going to be a very bumpy ride. You need a strong, rock solid advocate in command - Pat Grove is that attorney. When my divorce first began, I was seeking the best attorney I could find. I asked a good friend of mine who he would recommend. His answer - My ex-wife's attorney, Patricia Grove. There are few things worse in life, than going through a divorce; It is an emotional roller coaster. Divorce will test your mettle, and you must become 'battle hardened' to endure the process - believe me. You absolutely must have an attorney that is a proven advocate. Your attorney must also be respected by the Court and other attorneys - Pat Grove is that person. Pat will steer you through the storm of divorce, and you will emerge on the other side. There is also a beautiful life after divorce. You must do everything she says, because she knows. Pat will also be there for you post-divorce. Pat has been my divorce attorney for over fifteen years. We just emerged from a second storm over child support issues. I am once again reunited with my children and looking forward to our new beginning - I have Patricia Grove to thank for this, and I am eternally grateful for her counsel. If you get married - Try to stay married. As a husband or wife, If you must get a divorce, Pat will have your back - Always.

Pat helped me through a custody case and I couldn't have imagined going through it with anyone else! She was very good at explaining everything that was going on and everything that was going to be happening. She listened to my sometimes frantic phone calls and I always felt more at ease after talking to her. The thing that I loved most about Pat was her concern for my child, I always felt like she had his best interests at hand and that she truly cared about him. Even now that my case has been settled she still asks about him, which shows me just how much she really cares about who she's representing. I have recommended Pat to numerous other people, and will continue to do so because she is an amazing lawyer!

I have nothing but the highest praise for the work done on my behalf, by Patricia Grove. My divorce was a long and painful experience. It was described as the most contentious divorce in Waukesha county during the 1990's. During the proceedings Patricia Grove kept me "in the loop" all along the way. She anticipated every move my ex wife would make. And my ex tried everything in the book. She was found in contempt of court on five occasions, fined thousands of dollars, and found by the court to suffer from" Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy". Her failure to respond to the courts order to undergo a vocational evaluation to determine her earning potential led to saving me thousands of dollars in unwarranted child support. I did end up with full custody of my minor child. Patricia Grove provided the necessary care and attention my case demanded in a timely and professional manner. A truly great attorney.

Attorney Grove has been a pleasure to work with over the past year. She has not only helped my husband with a difficult child placement and support situation, but has looked out for him, providing legal and emotional support. During a time when it was hard to stay positive, Attorney Grove always showed us the light at the end of the tunnel, and we are forever grateful we selected such a professional and compassionate attorney to represent us.

I am still thanking my lucky stars that I chose Pat Grove to be my Attorney. She got me through a VERY tough divorce with a VERY happy outcome. She is very knowledgable and knows exactly what needs to be done. She kept me calm. I trusted her completely. I cannot say enough good things about Attorney Grove and would highly recommend her.

Ms. Grove helped me through a difficult case involving my children. She not only exceeded in the legal aspect of this case, but she was emotional support for me as well. Highly recommended to anyone looking for an efficient, diligent, and knowledgeable lawyer!

There are not enough good things to say about Attorney Grove. She has a great heart, but also the expertise and experience you need if you are going through a divorce with children . She has your best interest in mind and will fight for you.

Attorney Grove's expertise, professionalism, integrity and compassion were evident from the first consultation. I especially appreciated her background as a social worker who understood the dynamics of the issue that had impacted my relationship and my family. I thought my long term marriage would be easily dissolved since the kids were grown and there really shouldn't have been too many issues surrounding division of assets. The reality was far different. As an emotional thinker and decision maker I struggled to look out for myself and my future. While Atty. Grove's compassion and empathy regarding the emotional devastation of divorce was what led me to hire her, it was her ability to recognize my personality style that protected me. She was forthright and honest regarding options and scenarios which I appreciated. She walked me through the entire process, remained calm and supportive no matter what chaos ensued, was always willing to answer a myriad of questions. Her expertise was invaluable during the mediation process. I could not have chosen a better person to represent me and am very grateful for all her help during the most difficult period of my life.