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Pros
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Excellent communication and responsiveness
“Ashby is very informative, she stays in contact and answers your questions.”
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Effective legal representation in custody cases
“She helped me win custody of my children and has helped me to keep them safe. I would recommend her to anyone.”
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Diligent and hardworking in getting the job done
“She works hard to meet the expectations of her clients.”
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Knowledgeable in various areas of law
“She is versed in many aspects of law and can handle most any legal task you ask her to do.”
Cons
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Lacked advocacy and failed to protect client's interests in a custody case
“She didn't advocate for us. He filed first; the assigned GAL asked where my petitions were, so I asked her the same & was told I didn't need to file petitions of my own... So when his grounds were revealed & they were OUTRAGEOUS, I had no recourse to open my own 'change in circumstance,' so I was left ONLY fighting against my ex's stupid crap.”
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Provided poor legal advice and strategy
“Her advice was always, 'Give away this big huge thing that was agreed upon during the marriage, to the point of signing documents to the affect of the agreement, then take what scraps he will give you for added time w/ your kids... even if it means it's not really adding time & costs you in child support, peace of mind, and sanity.'”
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Displayed biased behavior and disrespectful language
“She repeatedly referred to me by a very specific, derogatory term. I asked her to stop using the word & she persisted.”

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24 Apr, 2017 by Anonymous
Ms. Pope was retained for custody. Despite it being obvious that my ex didn't want to care for his kids, but wanted to lower support payments & control things, she didn't advocate for us. He filed first; the assigned GAL asked where my petitions were, so I asked her the same & was told I didn't need to file petitions of my own... So when his grounds were revealed & they were OUTRAGEOUS, I had no recourse to open my own "change in circumstance," so I was left ONLY fighting against my ex's stupid crap. Several "deals" were tossed back & forth but none were good for my kids. Ms. Pope kept telling me I could NOT take a single day of visitation from my ex but every deal he offered cost me 12+ days per year. When you know the other party is looking to open support, you don't change days for a loss on your behalf. When a GAL can say, even to your kids' therapist that it's obvious the dad doesn't really WANT his kids, you don't GIVE that dad more time. You FIGHT for the time the mom is asking for, the kids are asking for, & the time the kids' teachers say is better for the kids. There was a last ditch effort by my ex to dodge court, but 1) the deal gave away a HUGE piece that was what he initially filed on (so I was agreeing to something I whole-heartedly believe is a detriment to the kids), 2) placed a ridiculous NEW stipulation on my time w/ the kids, & 3) gave him 3 days for every 2 days that were "added" to my time, so I was losing days overall. She yelled at me over the phone when I tried having a frank discussion w/ her about how I felt she was poorly representing me/us. She repeatedly referred to me by a very specific, derogatory term. I asked her to stop using the word & she persisted. She repeatedly told me I would lose & didn't bring half of the evidence I compiled despite it being pretty solid in the way of shining light on my ex's habits. She told me not to call witnesses because he had dismissed his, so we would look silly. She told me that one of my children's therapists would be a HUGE detriment to my case when the therapist said EVERYTHING to the contrary (& this has been reaffirmed several times!), so this professional, my strongest witness was never called. When asked about it, the therapist couldn't understand how Ms. Pope got the impression that he would be a detriment to MY case. He showed me my son's chart where he logged the information & it was reviewed again when the case was continued (I retained new counsel), & nothing he said about me was negative; in fact, the therapist agreed that it was obvious my ex doesn't want the kids, but he wants control & that's not a parent you put in charge. Period. Regardless of the issue that brought us to court this time, she put her own bias about a parenting style/choice first. She decided that the issue my ex chose to bring to court this time was something she agreed w/ him on & therefore, didn't represent me/us well. There was a lot more she could have done, especially w/ every text, email, screenshot, & witness I gave her, that she just didn't do. Her entire strategy revolved around settling out of court despite me repeatedly telling her that was not going to work - if we could settle, we wouldn't be here for the 7-8th time in 3 years. If we could settle, I wouldn't have thrown away $6,000 for an "advocate" to help argue my side. At no point did she say, "Don't offer that," during negotiations, so when one of his deals came back seizing on something I offered, but w/ additional demands, she blamed ME for giving too much away! Her advice was always, "Give away this big huge thing that was agreed upon during the marriage, to the point of signing documents to the affect of the agreement, then take what scraps he will give you for added time w/ your kids... even if it means it's not really adding time & costs you in child support, peace of mind, and sanity." The best interest of the children was over-ridden by a singular issue when it shouldn't have been.
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08 Feb, 2016 by Mike
Ashby is very informative, she stays in contact and answers your questions. She helped me win custody of my children and has helped me to keep them safe. I would recommend her to anyone.
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12 Aug, 2014 by Donald
Ashby Pope is an awesome attorney. She represented me very well with my divorce and she is a very tough lawyer. I would recommend Ashby Pope to anyone who needs a great attorney. Once again Ashby thank you for representing me.
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30 Jul, 2014 by Anonymous
Mrs. Pope tried a family law case on my behalf. She was well prepared for trial and it showed in the courtroom. She kept me well informed throughout the process and was always available for questions. Her fees were very reasonable and the service was excellent. I would highly recommend Mrs. Pope for any type of legal matter in the Tidewater area.
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18 Jul, 2014 by Kimberly
We hired Ashby to facilitate my husband adopting my daughter. The process was nerve racking enough and she constantly assured me that everything would be fine. When an issue came up she worked diligently to fix it. She works hard to meet the expectations of her clients. I would recommend her as legal counsel for anyone.
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17 Aug, 2020 by Anonymous
I hired Archer Jones to fight a custody case for me as well as review my divorce paperwork. Initially he was upbeat about my case and I paid the retainer . A week later, his attitude completely changed. No longer upbeat, he accused me of doing the same things my ex-wife was alleging. I fired him and found a lawyer who fairly represented me and my child instead of believing my ex-wife and her lawyer. Those false allegations fell apart in court and I was able to increase my time with my daughter to 50/50. After letting him know I was going to have someone else represent me, Archer charged me an exorbitant fee to review legal paperwork that he did not author and was standard language for divorce decrees, and refused to return the retainer. I cannot express the pain of hiring someone only to have them accuse you of the same garbage your ex-wife is spreading about you. I recommend him to no one except my ex-wife. Please don't put your children's future in his hands.
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